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  • April 25, 2012

    The law against assisted suicide forces some desparate people who want a peaceful death to leave their own country and travel overseas to accomplish their goal. This sort of thing needs to change so that people can die in ther own homes on their own terms.

    When Rosemary asked her son-in-law James Ross to look at the logistics of an assisted suicide at the Dignitas clinic in Switzerland he wasn't sure if he could do it. Here he tells how he joined her daughters on their mother's final journey from the U.K. to Switzerland.

    The Independent, 24th April.

  • March 15, 2012

    A doctor in England was at the bedside of his grandmother while the attending nurse administered an overdose of morphine. This was planned by the grandmother and approved by her family. Nevertheless, it was against the law.

    Dying With Dignity is aware that this clandestine ending of lives happens every day in Canada and believes that medically assisted dying which is properly controlled  should be available to all Canadians. At the present time it is not and we are faced with situations similar to this one in England.

  • March 9, 2012

    Our sister organization in the U.S., Compassion and Choices has circulated this very moving letter, below.

    My friend,

    As I write this, I am preparing to say goodbye to my dear friend and co-campaigner, Dr. Peter Goodwin of Portland, Oregon. He is 83 years old.

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  • February 20, 2012

    It haunts me to this day: the call of my Dad's desperate voice, " I'm still here?"

    We had no idea why, with blood cancer, after weeks of refusing blood or plasma products, not a blood cell to his name, and life still hung on to his frail body.  And, now he was resenting the wait.  It had been almost 2 months since this last palliative admission to hospital.

     

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  • June 26, 2011

    Judy was born August 19, 1943 and passed away on January 3, 2011.  She died without dignity.

    Judy and I had been married for 33 years and her Power of Attorney wishes were to give her organs (Organ Donor) to research at her death and that she not be given life support in her dying days.

    Judy’s journey started sometime in 1998. On the day before I moved out of our home in June 2011, I found a letter she’d written to me dated Nov. 20, 1988. In it, she stated that “she had gone to the Alzheimer Society to get information as she was feeling different”.  She signed off at the end of this part of letter with “…will try and update frequently, if I remember, ha, ha. Jude XX.”  Next date: “Today is Oct. 15, 2003.  I still have those feelings often and forget a lot.  Thank you for your patience and love, Judy.”

    Final update: “Today is Sept. 1, 2006.  I still think I’ve got it. I’m going to talk to doctor.  I love life and have had so much fun, especially with you.  Love forever, Judy XXXXOOOO.”

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  • June 6, 2011

    Susan was my aunt by marriage. We visited Susan regularly even though she and my husband didn’t seem to like each other very much.

    When my husband became my ex-husband she wrote to me saying “please don’t forget me.” And I didn’t.

    Every few weeks she and I would have tea and exchange books (we were both avid readers); we enjoyed her zoo of birds and dogs; lots of dogs.  Generations of dogs came and went; Susan stayed.

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  • May 27, 2011

    We recently held our first ever speaker/ambassador training session in Vancouver.  These continue to be one of my favourite events as I have an opportunity to work closely with a small gorup of members who are keenly committed to our work.

    As part of the training session, each participant has an opportunity to share a story with the group about why they support Dying With Dignity.  Here is a story from one of the most recent attendees:

    I have been interested in the concept of "Dying With Dignity" and have followed events related to assisted dying for many years, but always with a philosophical, somewhat remote attitude. I still had not come to terms with the reality that such events could happen to me, or someone close to me, that is, not until May of last year. Then, alarming things began to occur, and escalated in a manner I could not have imagined.

    In late May of 2010, my former and ailing husband was diagnosed with terminal cancer. He was cared for at home by a palliative team, and after a few hellish weeks, died in early July. Three days later I, usually glowing with health, suffered a freak accident at a fitness class and was hospitalized with fractures of the right elbow and pelvis.

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